So if you do choose to move forward with a foster child entering your home, realise that this change will be life-changing (for the better). Creating a gentle space and atmosphere in your home helps the child to settle down, trust you and feel welcomed. Here’s how to get started:
- Create a Calm, Inviting Bedroom
All children are entitled to their own sacred space. Clean, comfortable and of course age-appropriate bedroom. Add a soft bed, clean sheets and some of their personal belongings (a few books, lamp or stuffed animals) to help them be more comfortable. For Foster Care Bridgend, visit https://saferfostering.org.uk/foster-care-wales/bridgend/
- Safety First
Ensure hazardous areas are identified and childproofed in the home — this can be anything from stair gates, to window locks, additional safety latches on cupboards/toilet seats or just a lockable box for your medicines/cleaning products. The foster process is different and will include safety checks, which are a good way to make everyone feel more secure.
- Stock Up on Essentials
Have basic toiletries, an extra change of clothes and healthy snacks. Even if you do not know what exactly the child needs, being equipped with basic items gives a sense of presence and shows that you have thought about it.
- Create Welcoming Spaces
Every shared part like the living and dining area should give a warm and inviting feeling. Even just a family photo or piece of artwork can make the space feel comfortable, but try not to overdo it so you don’t overwhelm your new guest.
- Be Flexible
Every child is different. Get ready to make some changes in both your home and routines as you discover what they can fully enjoy or want.
In Summary:
A stitch in time saves nine. Establishing a safe, comfortable home where the child feels welcome and supported is essential to fostering success both for you as foster parents and your evolving family.
